“It was a very interesting assignment,” she said. “But we always knew we would return. We wanted the girls to receive a proper American education and establish their roots in the United States. After seven years, our overseas adventure came to an end, and I sought the next challenge for my career.”
Tien returned to lead Ernst and Young’s San Francisco tax team. After a few years in that role, she began pursuing her next goal, to focus on her advisory practice. She recently joined DLA Piper law firm’s Palo Alto office as a principal economist to advise clients in tax planning in response to the new tax legislation.
Throughout Tien’s career in the United States and China, she has been conscientious about work-life balance and the choices to be made.
“I believe that life comes first and work has to fit in. I have walked away from assignments that were not making sense for my family. However, everyone is making choices to balance, so that is just part of life. My advice is to build skill sets that will continue to be valued. Drive your career with a full understanding of your value proposition. Pace yourself when pursuing desired progress. Employ realistic alternatives, and things will work out.”
Pursuing Passions
Another driver for Tien and her husband to move the family back to the United States was their love of music. Gao returned to the San Francisco Conservatory of Music to receive his master’s degree in music composition, while Tien sings in a professional choir.
“I’ve always loved singing, but I gave it up for 30 years,” she said. “From college until a few years ago, it was not really practical for me to give it much focus. But when I saw how my daughters were blossoming as they pursue various forms of art, I recognized that I didn’t want to be a Tiger mom, driving them to pursue my unrealized dream. I have a passion, and the time to renew my interest is now.”
It is also important for Tien to mentor women and Asian professionals.
“I’ve benefitted from many mentors throughout my life. I believe in paying it forward, and I get more energized if I stay engaged,” she said. “The Bay Area has a vibrant Asian community with lots of talents in the finance professions. But I observe systematic biases that might be holding some people back. My help and effort in opening doors, connecting people, and helping them think through some issues, could be meaningful.”
Through music, mentoring, and becoming involved again with Booth, Tien feels she’s improved her life.
“I’m utilizing my limited free time. You can’t abandon your personal happiness,” she said. “Even as I become busier, I’m reminded that life is rich.”